So I signed in today and found this comment...
Geewizz girl. You're still so young, why are you in such a haste? Give yourself a break! You can succeed and you can do whatever you dream of doing, but it won't come to you in a blink of an eye. Just don't give up on your dreams, believe in yourself. Give yourself some creds for at least having goals and dreams and wanting to achieve them. Keep on fighting, be strong. And hey, remember: Nothing worth having comes easy. Best of luck to ya' and take care!
It't from a mysterious person who only signed ut with a "N".
I do thank you for the push you are trying to give me. It's really nice for you. And to repy to it better... I don't know why I am in such a haste.. I have always been this way (maybe it's because I dont feel so young), but I suppose that you are right nothing good comes just like that. But in a way it's like, before these news, I had a plan.. sort off. But now, it feels like I am tumbling in the dark. I don't know what direction to take and I don't know what to do to reach my goals. It feels like I whant guide lines. But maybe that is to make things to easy...? What do you think?
Btw, if I may ask... Who are you? Where are you from?
I am just the most curious person ever, hehe ^^
Its amazing that I saw this comment just now. About 30 minutes ago me nd Maya was talking about everythig that is going on, and started to get it into my head that maybe this isn't what I whanted, maybe I should just give up these goals and see if I can find new ones. But this sort of gave me a new ignition. I will take this to heart and think some more. It's amazing how small things can change every thing.
"It involved too much about little things do not lose the big ones."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
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Prepare yourself for a lot to read hehe.
I'm just like you in a way, I'm always in a hurry. Just recently I discovered that there's no guide lines and that I have to create my own ones.
I believe everything happens for a reason and that every setback in life has a lesson to learn. What doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. I've been put through hell these last couple of years and even though I feel fragile and sometimes even beaten, I'm really only growing and becoming stronger.
I just want you to know that even though you feel like you're stumbling in a dark place right now, you're really just stumbling THROUGH it. And somewhere in the mess (even if you can't seem to see it at the moment), there is a lesson to be taught. I'm talking out of my own experiences. I've been stumbling in and out through my dark place for years (and I'm not even 20 years old yet), but I've got so much more knowledge now than I had before. I don't belive that I'd be this wise, emotionally if I hadn't been through what I've been through. And I wouldn't be able to help others and understand others (like you for example) if I hadn't been through what I've been through. People who haven't had up and downs in life, will never grow emotionally like you are doing right now.
Don't give up on your plans. You could just postpone them untill you've decided what to do. There really isn't any reason for you to be in this kind of a hurry and to feel this bad about it. You are young. You've got time. Think about it. If you don't know what to do now, just try to chill a little. Do what you feel like doing right now and all the other stuff will sort themselves out. It'll come to ya', just don't overthink it. Don't forget to enjoy life even now while you're planning for the future.
Hehe, I'd be curious too if I were you. It's fully understandable. I had a blog myself once, and I had a pretty high amount of readers. Since I wasn't able too see who they all were I gave the whole shit up haha, it just drove me crazy. Now I just enjoy reading other blogs instead. I stumbled across yours and here I am. I'm Swedish ;) and really happy to help! Take care!
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